He is a Hoverer

Greetings,

I think it’s safe to say that for any of us who have ever loved a child, raised a child, or lent a helping hand in caring for a child, it has not always been crystal clear in knowing when to let go.  I remember struggling to let Rachel go to church sleep-away camp when she was 13.  I finally relented but was in a state of semi-panic for three days.  I remember dropping Jorgie off at UofM when he was 17 thinking, “Will he eat enough and get enough rest?”  Mind you, his college was a 15-minute drive away, but I couldn’t help myself.  Here he was, an almost 18-year-old man who was more than capable of taking care of himself, and I tried not to obsess. About two weeks later we showed up with a care package, and Jorge, in the most loving way possible, without trying to insult me (I hope), said as we got down from the car, “Bibi, cut the cord already.” 

Well, the nerve! He had a point, however, and I guess we all learn as we go.  But when it comes to our Lord, there is no guessing game.  There is no trying to figure out if He will gently nudge us out into the big wide world to face life on our own because He is a hoverer!  He is the ultimate helicopter parent, and this is the best possible news!

“Protect me…; hide me in the shadow of Your wings as You hover over me” (Psalm 17:8 The Living Bible).

God is always with us, and I find such comfort in knowing that He hovers, lingers, poises, sticks around, and remains with me all day every day. There is protection, peace, guidance, joy, and hope when the Lord is near.  Thank Him that He will never cut the cord!

PRAYER: Dear Lord, we look forward to independence as we grow older, but never from You.  The longer we live, the more we realize how much we need You every moment of every day.  Thank You that You are always nearby.  Help us to find peace in the coolness and safety of Your shadow. In Jesus’ name, AMEN.